How we are Teaching our 4 year old to ride their bike

There’s nothing more satisfying to a parent than to watch your child learn a new skill! My 4 year old daughter had been riding on her bike with training wheels this summer and this weekend my husband decided it was time to take them off! I’m gonna be honest, I wasn’t as sure as he was that she was ready. I decided to let daddy take point and see what happens. Once he took those training wheels off, he had her riding on two wheels by lunch time! I was so impressed and decided to share what we learned through the process to help other parents.

Balance Bike

This two wheeling journey began long before we took the training wheels off. We tried to set her up from the beginning by teaching her balance using a balance bike. A balance bike is essentially a bike without pedals. This allowed her to learn the art of coasting for short periods of time. We started her on the balance bike around 2 years old. She rode that for a year and slowly learned how to gain speed and coast for longer periods of time. The bike is also incredibly light and easy to carry so we frequently travelled with the bike when possible to give her ample time to practice riding it.

Training Wheels

A balance bike is pretty light and doesn’t have any pedals so we ended up purchasing her a bike with pedals and training wheels once she grew out of the balance bike. She was about three years old when we made this transition. She was able to get a feel for the heaviness of the bike and how to manage the pedals and the brake. She also had a little more freedom and was learning the rules of the road more as she was able to bike along side me. We practiced on that bike until she was four and we tried at the beginning of the summer to transition her to two wheels but we learned quickly that she wasn’t quite ready so we put them back on and decided we would try towards the end of the summer.

Scooter

Our daughter had received a two wheeled scooter for Christmas from her Aunt and Uncle and she was excited to start using that once the snow melted. She ended up liking the scooter over the bike because it was easy to grab and go for her. It’s light and pretty fast once you get the hang of using it. A month into using the scooter I noticed that she began to balance! We realized that this was a great tool for her to use to get used to riding a bike with two wheels and we watched her confidence grow over the next few months. By September the summer heat was cooling down and we both had talked about moving back to the bike. She seemed ready and daddy was ready for the challenge!

Learning to ride her bike!

Daddy took the training wheels off and ran along side of her to allow her an opportunity to pedal while he was holding on. He did this for a few laps and then started running faster and letting go for short periods of time when she had enough balance but he stayed close in case she started to lean. After about 5 passes my daughter was off! She knew what the balance felt like and she was ready for the challenge. Now we just help her get going and are working on stopping. I can’t believe how much easier the transition was after she practiced using the scooter for a few months.

Tip-Kids get tired out quick when learning a new skill. Our first day ended in a meltdown because she got overly tired and wanted to keep practicing. For our next kid I will plan to stop practicing earlier in the day so he has a chance to wind down before the meltdown! 🙂

5 Fun Toddler Activities

Chalk, Chalk, & More Chalk!

There’s nothing as exciting to a child than colorful, imaginative play. Grab some cheap and colorful sidewalk chalk and your child can create their own imaginary oasis of boats, fish, sunshine and rainbows! The opportunity is endless of what they might think up. The fact that it is cheap and easy to prepare and clean up is a plus for us busy mommas too!

Bubbles, Bubbles, Bubbles to Pop!

Toddlers love nothing more than to chase things and nothing is more fun to chase than a mysterious bubble! If floats low to the ground, high to the sky and zig zags through the yard. They are circular rainbows tempting chubby fingers to poke at them for at least one hour of peaceful momma bliss!

Splish Splash not the Bath!

My toddler can’t help herself when it comes to water. She unloads it on me during her bath, pours out her water cup on the table at mealtimes, and don’t get me started on the garden hose incident 🙂 One activity that will keep a toddler entertained for an afternoon would be a water table. Any water table will do but my favorite is a water table with lots of balls and gadgets to play with.

Hide & Seek

There’s nothing more satisfying to a toddler than playing hide and seek! Toddlers love to be in charge and will happily count while their mommy or daddy runs to hide so they can find them. I even bring my infant son along for the ride. He gives me away with his squeals of excitement sometimes but it’s all for the love of the game!

Balls

I haven’t met a toddler yet that won’t play with a ball. It doesn’t matter if it’s a beach ball, soccer ball, rubber ball, or a volleyball. Toddlers can’t wait to roll, kick, and pass that ball! For out side I love to use a large rubber ball that’s easy to kick but fun to throw at each other without getting hurt.

Memphis

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My son arrived in August of 2019! We named him Memphis and he is the sweetest little boy. I have to admit that there has been a different kind of special between my little boy and his mommy 🙂 He looks at me with such love and admiration.

Memphis fills and completes our family. I can’t imagine us not being a family of four now that I have met him. He has rounded out our family with his chill personality. One of the best things about him is that I can already tell he is a silly boy. Sometimes I get the feeling that someone is staring at me when he’s sleeping in my arms. When I look down, I see him giving me the sweetest gummy smiles that melt my heart each and every time!

We are in love and have created the most beautiful bond from him nursing almost round the clock it seems! I had hoped to get to writing shortly after his birth but it with two kids under the age of 3 I have found writing has become quite the challenge!

More to come on my budding family.